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Professional Matchmaker Reveals Dating Myths & Relationship Mistakes | Lisa Holley-Palmer

Fri, 13 Mar 2026 12:00:00 +0000

Professional matchmaker Lisa Holley Palmer joins the podcast to talk about modern dating, relationship myths, and the real stories she’s seen while helping people find love.

Lisa is the founder of Jump Up Charity, an initiative supporting survivors of domestic violence, and the owner of Mindjump Magazine, where she shares inspiring stories and perspectives on life, relationships, and personal growth.

In this episode we discuss:

• What really works in modern dating
• The most common relationship myths people believe
• Wild matchmaking stories
• Leaving relationships and healing afterwards
• Audience questions about dating rules
• Celebrity crush confessions
• Funny and awkward life moments

Lisa also shares insights from her work helping people rebuild their lives after difficult relationships and why community support and honest conversations matter.

If you enjoy podcasts about dating, relationships, personal growth, and real-life stories, this episode is for you.

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Lisa's Links:

Mind Jump Magazine - https://www.mindjumpmonthly.com/
Jump Up - https://jump-up.uk/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lisaholleypalmerofficial/?hl=en

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Marriage, Motherhood & Modern Dating - Laura Hamilton

Wed, 11 Feb 2026 18:09:49 +0000

Most people talk about sex, relationships, and marriage in fragments.
This conversation does it honestly without filters, shame, or pretending.

From first love to long-term relationships, from divorce to dating again, this episode explores how identity, desire, and confidence evolve over time. It’s about learning your body, your boundaries, and your voice, often much later than we expect.

Sex education doesn’t prepare us for real life.
Neither does marriage.
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We’re living in the messy middle where people are questioning old rules, unlearning taboos, and trying to raise children with more honesty than previous generations were given.
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Over time, the questions change:
-Does body count actually matter?
-Why is pleasure still such a difficult topic?
-How do you talk to children about sex without fear?
-What does dating look like after divorce?
-Why do we learn so much about relationships too late?
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Timestamps
00:00 – Introduction & opening conversation
01:11 – Laura’s career journey
02:16 – Balancing public life and privacy
03:29 – Marriage, divorce & public scrutiny
04:27 – Keeping relationships private
05:25 – Parenting in the public eye
06:22 – Kids growing up on TV sets
07:30 – Childhood, adoption & family honesty
09:09 – Learning openness from parents
10:48 – Divorce & changing relationships
11:58 – Marriage as a contract
13:11 – All-girls school experience
15:30 – Body confidence & teenage years
16:18 – First love & early relationships
18:55 – Talking about sex openly
20:18 – Parenting conversations on sex
22:44 – Sex education in schools
26:44 – Career, pregnancy & motherhood
29:16 – Returning to work after birth
32:01 – Taking risks as a mother
39:16 – Health challenges & mindset
41:08 – Learning to fly planes
43:24 – Dating stories & modern dating
47:15 – Relationships & body count
52:23 – Unwanted advances & industry safety
55:03 – Sexual regrets & self-growth
57:23 – Co-parenting after divorce
59:41 – Parenting boys vs girls
01:01:05 – Views on marriage today
01:03:04 – Advice on sex, divorce & relationships
01:06:08 – Closing & farewell
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This isn’t about shock value.
It’s about clarity, growth, and self-acceptance.
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So we explored:
-Sex education vs real experience
-Dating and desire after long relationships
-Motherhood, body image, and confidence
-Divorce without shame
-Raising children with honesty and boundaries
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The hard truth: Most of us figure life out after we’re told we should already know.

The Gavin Sisters - Building a Happy Life Without Chasing Relationships

Fri, 16 Jan 2026 12:00:00 +0000

In this funny and deeply moving episode of Under the Sheets with Tatiana Ashborn, I sit down with The Gavin Sisters, Sharon and Loretta, to talk honestly about love, loss, sisterhood, and rebuilding life from scratch. The sisters share their very real dating disasters, from ankle-tag confessions to painfully awkward first kisses, alongside heavier moments like divorce, being left while pregnant, and navigating single motherhood. They explain how moving in together became a natural decision, raising their children as one family while supporting each other through illness, burnout, and major life changes. Sharon opens up about living with a severe autoimmune disease and how stress, sobriety, and a plant-based lifestyle slowly helped her recover. Together, they talk about stepping away from dating apps, choosing peace over pressure, and finding fulfilment through friendship, purpose, comedy, and their wellness retreats. ------------------------------------------- This isn’t about perfect relationships or fairy-tale love. It’s about honesty, boundaries, and choosing peace over chaos. You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

Childhood Sweethearts, Engagement & Sex Schedules

Tue, 23 Dec 2025 09:56:14 +0000

In this fabulous episode, Tatiana sits down with long-term couple Chris & Catherine, who have been together since they were just 13 years old. From friends with benefits at school parties to building a real adult life together, their story spans over 11 years of growing up side by side. They talk openly about first times, insecurity, jealousy, and how love changes from your teens into adulthood. They share how learning each other’s love languages, communicating without shouting, and staying emotionally connected helped them stay together through busy and difficult phases. They also open up about sex, intimacy, mismatched sex drives, scheduling time for each other, money, living together, and getting engaged. The episode ends with honest reflections on marriage, pressure to have children, and choosing not to rush major life decisions just because everyone else expects it. Thank you for coming on the show, and best of luck with the wedding!! 💒

Key Points Video Includes: -Meeting at 13 and growing up in the same relationship -Friends with benefits, commitment fears, and the ultimatum that changed everything -First times, awkward teenage moments, and early intimacy -Love languages, communication, and avoiding big arguments -Insecurity, jealousy, and building confidence over time -Sex, mismatched sex drives, and scheduling intimacy in long-term relationships -Moving in together, money, and managing adult life as a couple -Engagement story and planning a wedding in Spain -Marriage expectations and pressure from family and society -Deciding not to rush into having children and protecting their relationship

We Lost Everything Trying to Have a Baby | How IVF, Healing & Hard Truths Saved Us - Jacky & Eleanor

Wed, 03 Dec 2025 17:29:29 +0000

In this deeply emotional and brutally honest episode, Tatiana sits down with married couple Jacky & Eleanor to explore their five-year battle to start a family: three miscarriages, three rounds of IVF, DNA fragmentation, surgery, over £50k spent, and the miracle pregnancy that finally changed everything. From Jacky's past as a world-touring DJ fuelled by drugs, alcohol and afterparties, to the moment he realised he had to rebuild his entire life to become a father, this conversation goes far beyond fertility touching on love, addiction, shame, sex, resilience and staying together when everything keeps falling apart. Eleanor opens up about chemical pregnancies, being hospitalised from fertility medication, discovering PCOS and immune issues years into their journey, and the silent heartbreak of watching everyone else’s baby announcements while grieving her own losses. Together, they share how everything they endured inspired them to create Aloomah Fertility an online fertility community and podcast supporting both partners, especially men who are so often overlooked in infertility conversations. Key Points Video Includes -How Jacky touring DJ lifestyle, alcohol and ketamine use affected his health and fertility. -Eleanor’s journey discovering PCOS, immune issues and why these were missed for years. -How infertility pressure affected their sex life, intimacy and relationship dynamic. -The lifestyle changes, surgeries and tests that finally led to their successful pregnancy. -The financial and mental strain of paying privately for treatment after being denied NHS support. -The physical challenges of IVF, from hormone injections to egg retrieval and recovery. -How lockdown, lost income and moving back in with family shaped their fertility journey. -The importance of therapy, communication and teamwork through infertility stress. -Their hopes for the future of IVF, including better accessibility, early testing and equal support for all couples. Timestamps: 00:00:00 – Their five-year fertility struggle: miscarriages, IVF & £50k spent 00:06:05 – Jacky's DJ life: Apple Store to signing a record deal and touring the world 00:09:10 – Life as a touring DJ: drugs, alcohol, burnout & relationship strain 00:14:37 – Wedding day: heatwave chaos, rave-style reception & deejaying his own wedding 00:18:00 – Deciding to start a family and realising something wasn’t right 00:25:23 – Drugs, ketamine addiction & how DJ culture normalised everything 00:29:20 – First IVF success that ended in a chemical pregnancy 00:32:41 – Diagnosis: high natural killer cells and finally discovering PCOS 00:39:11 – The IVF round that finally worked and early pregnancy anxiety 00:42:35 – How trying-to-conceive cycles can dominate your whole life 00:50:45 – Creating Aloomah, their fertility support community and podcast 00:58:44 – What they hope changes in IVF: accessibility, postcode lottery & NHS rules 01:08:35 – Are they ready for parenthood & what scares them most 01:11:32 – Gifts, gratitude & emotional closing with Tatiana You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

The Man Behind Attitude Mag & Rolling Stone UK: Darren Styles OBE

Mon, 27 Oct 2025 18:00:00 +0000

Came out at 32. Thought he’d wasted 12 years. Now he runs Attitude Magazine and Rolling Stone UK - and has Elton John on speed dial.

In this episode I sit down with Darren Styles OBE, who talks openly about the years he spent hiding who he was before finally stepping into himself. We discuss the twelve-year journey it took to convince Elton John to do a feature, the wild and chaotic reality behind some magazine shoot VPLs (visible penis lines), and the real work and honesty that marriage can demand.

This is a conversation about identity, courage, pride, and loving yourself enough to become who you were always meant to be.

Believe in yourself, always. 🏳️‍🌈✨

Energies, EPs & Everything In Between

Wed, 24 Sep 2025 17:00:00 +0000

This week I’m joined by the incredible singer Deina for a conversation that flows from star signs and energies (including why my Capricorn self and my Leo boyfriend might not be the most compatible 👀), to the unfiltered truths of a girls’ group chat, and the creative process behind her EP and upcoming album. Deina also takes us behind her lyrics - unpacking the stories, emotions, and moments that shaped her music. It’s equal parts astrology tea & music inspo!

You can find her on:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iam_deina/?hl=en

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5mEd0VyoKSSF558EDzNXCc

Love, Loss & Liberation - Ellie Mckay

Fri, 12 Sep 2025 17:00:00 +0000

What do you do when you hit 42, walk away from a 20-year marriage, and suddenly find yourself back on Hinge wondering what on earth “vibes” and “icks” are?

If you’re Ellie McKay, you reinvent yourself completely and the old version of you would probably be horrified.

In this episode, Ellie spills the tea on everything: from millionaire to homeless, telling her kids about the divorce, dating in midlife, why so many people settle for mediocre (and why she refuses to), and the wild ride of falling in love with her boss. We dive into sex parties, postnatal depression, self-development, and the chaos of working with your mum (spoiler: don’t do it).

Ellie is hilarious, brutally honest, and refreshingly real. This conversation will make you laugh, maybe blush, and definitely think twice about where you’re playing it safe in your own life.

👉 Swipe right on this episode - you won’t regret it.

The Love, Lust, Learn Theory

Fri, 05 Sep 2025 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode, we go far beneath the surface, exploring what it really means to be a woman, the tangled layers of family relationships, and the personal cost of choices around career and children. Ingrid shares candidly about panic attacks during intimacy, the lingering weight of never feeling “good enough,” and how her bond with her mother shifts when distance is part of the equation. Together, we dive into the “Love, Lust, Learn” theory, why consent must be taught and reinforced, and the ways silence around “no” can ripple into adulthood. It’s a conversation about identity, resilience, and redefining worth through music, memory, and the stories we’re brave enough to tell. You may find some of these issues troubling. Viewer discretion advised. Please visit our website: www.dirtytalkofficial.com for finding information and resources. We love you and you are needed.

Sex Advice For Seniors - Suzanne Noble

Fri, 15 Aug 2025 17:00:00 +0000

In this conversation, I sit down with Suzanne Noble, creator of Sex Advice for Seniors, to explore the unexpected twists and turns of later-life sexual discovery. Suzanne opens up about her unconventional journey—from spending two years having only threesomes, to facing friends’ concerns about whether she was bordering on sex addiction.

We dive into the realities of intimacy as we age: vaginal dryness, the liberating truth that sex doesn’t stop in our later years, and the role of vaginal estrogen in women’s sexual health. Suzanne also shares deeply personal stories—being divorced, losing two long-term partners, and embracing a non-monogamous lifestyle. Along the way, we talk French swinging clubs, clothing-optional towns, and a few cheeky hotel room scandals.

This episode is a fearlessly frank look at desire, resilience, and joy at any age—and a reminder that the adventure doesn’t end just because the candles on the cake keep adding up.

Navigating Abuse, Survival & Recovery - Lauren

Fri, 18 Jul 2025 14:53:23 +0000

In this conversation, Lauren shares her story — one marked by pain, survival, strength, and the kind of honesty that takes your breath away. We talk about the hidden patterns of abuse: how easy it is to get caught in them, how hard it is to leave, and how those experiences leave lasting marks on our hearts, our relationships, and our sense of self. Lauren speaks with such bravery about the moments that broke her, the red flags she missed, and the fight to trust herself again all whilst having two gorgeous children. We also open up about the everyday realities of healing — from the messiness of modern dating to the unsolicited messages no one asks for — and how difficult it can be to feel whole again after you've been silenced or shamed. This conversation is for anyone who’s ever felt stuck, questioned their worth, or needed a reminder that healing is possible — and that you are never alone.

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From Millions to Meaning: Sex, Self-Worth & Strategic Relationships - Jason Graystone

Wed, 28 May 2025 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode, investor and entrepreneur Jason Graystone opens up like never before. We dive into building emotional security despite a complicated past, becoming a dad at 22, and how Napoleon Hill’s Think and Grow Rich reframed his views on sex and purpose. From soundproofing offices for intimacy to the transactional nature of relationships, sex tapes, and grounding through arguments—this is a raw, unexpected look at success, self-worth, and connection.

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Knobbed in a Honda Jazz & Other Life Lessons - Neemah

Fri, 18 Apr 2025 11:00:00 +0000

Neemah pulled up to the pod like a Honda Jazz in sport mode. From first-time sex to getting kinky in the bushes, and the delicate art of dating someone with a child—plus a light touch of daddy issues and a not-so-light touch of breeding kink. We talk about the finer things in life; Tinder hook-ups, post-nut clarity, sacrificing morals for money, cheating (is it ever really wrong?), commitment issues, and the dreaded pokey bum moment. Neemah reveals all but I think I revealed more. It was the best catching up with Neemah, messy, funny, and completely unhinged - tea time, if someone had slipped in a double shot of tequila.

Breakups, Dating & Fresh Starts - Matt Barnett

Wed, 26 Mar 2025 12:46:32 +0000

In this episode, we’re covering everything—from the soft, soothing sounds of an ASMR condom tutorial (yes, really) to deep-diving into sex education, breakup advice, and the rollercoaster of dating on Raya. We’re also talking gift giving ideas, Bruno Mars, the behind the scenes of doing a counselling course, and the reality of moving forward in life. Whether you’re healing, dating, or just here for the vibes, this one’s for you. 🌿✨ Tune in, relax, and let’s figure it all out together. 💭💘

Love without Sight w/Blind Tobes

Wed, 12 Mar 2025 12:00:00 +0000

In this episode, we sit down with BlindTobes—disability advocate, content creator, and blind footballer—to talk about life, love, and breaking down misconceptions.

From navigating relationships as a blind person to the worst dates imaginable, we get real about the challenges, the funny moments, and the unexpected joys. We also dive into relationship advice, the realities of dating with a disability, and the tough but important conversation around sexual assault.

This one’s honest, and packed with insight—because relationships are already tricky, and sight is definitely not the only thing that matters.

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Pillow Talk & Power Moves

Wed, 19 Feb 2025 18:00:00 +0000

Glory is an amazing woman that I was lucky to meet many years ago. A true honour to be able to say she's been on my show! She brings wisdom, humour, and raw honesty to the conversations so many people shy away from but absolutely need to have. We dive deep into the power of communication and eye contact in intimacy, the art of giving head, and the idea that sex is an exchange of energy. We talk about allocating time to have sex with yourself and whether masturbation in a relationship is a problem. We explore dirty talk—when it’s hot, when it goes terribly wrong, and how to master it;) We break down the rules of intimacy, delve into what song gains space on your sex playlists, and discuss the moments that aren’t so glamorous—like needing to poo at the worst time (yes, I'm sure we've all been there), shower sex, and whether it’s actually worth the hype. And of course, we always bring it back to safe sex and pleasure that feels good in every way. This isn’t just a podcast about sex—it’s sex education, redefined. No shame, no judgment, just honest, informative, and sometimes hilariously awkward conversations.

Follow, join the convo, and let’s get into it.

From Kitchen Tops to Kinky Shops with BrandedSpanking

Wed, 05 Feb 2025 00:00:00 +0000

In this episode, we dive deep into the world of unexpected entrepreneurship with Tom, the man who turned lockdown boredom into a booming business—handcrafting branding spanking paddles (yes, literally).

What started as making kitchen tops quickly pivoted into the pleasure industry, proving that necessity (or maybe just curiosity) is the mother of invention. We talk about his "permitted" relationship with a married woman, the filthy truth about Midlanders and Americans, and whether he really should have just embraced a career in the sex industry outright.

Does sex have to be amazing to make a relationship work?
Bum and boob advice from a man who knows his way around both.
And, of course, the unforgettable moment: "I’m being eaten alive."

Buckle up (or, you know, bend over) for a wild, no-holds-barred conversation about relationships, business, and the fine line between DIY and BDSM.

Tics, Confidence & Getting a Ha**job on a Plane?! - Harrison

Wed, 22 Jan 2025 12:00:00 +0000

Imagine sitting down with someone who’s not afraid to spill it all—the highs, the lows, and the downright hilarious. That’s exactly what happened when I interviewed Harrison, and trust me, this is a conversation you’ll never forget.

Harrison opened up about battling with tics and how they’ve shaped his life, sharing the struggles of dealing with confidence and finding ways to own who he is. But it didn’t stop there. Things got real, funny, and a little wild as we dived into moments that feel too outrageous to be true - 'the one with the toe'

From dipping toes into topics like body confidence and that awkward first time, to the time he posted his nude of his Instagram story by mistake (yep, really), nothing was off the table. He even talked about trying to lasting less in a Primark changing room, cringe-worthy chat-up lines, and that moment on a plane that left everyone wide-eyed.

And, of course, it wouldn’t be complete without a shoutout to Nicki Minaj’s “Anaconda” and a bold confession about having sex in a hair salon.

This isn’t just an interview—it’s a journey through life’s awkward, honest, and laugh-out-loud moments, with stories that’ll make you think, cringe, and maybe even relate.

Come along for the ride. Hit play, and let’s dive in.

Franki Hackett - From Horse Stunts to Blow Job Mastery

Fri, 03 Jan 2025 18:42:30 +0000

In this wild interview, I finally sit down with horse stunt double Franki Hackett, about life behind the cameras. From the chaos of balancing industry standards with young motherhood & relationships to hilarious and cringe-worthy tales of bad sex, blowjob techniques, and asthma attacks in all the wrong moments, Franki tells it like it is. Including the big question - if you have too much anal does that mean your fart would just be silent air?

We dive into the wild world of sex parties, to break beds just because we can, and what it’s like navigating life as a young parent while performing jaw-dropping stunts on horseback and becoming an independent Wonder Woman. It’s raw, funny, and absolutely unforgettable—just like Franki herself or should I say ’Unpredictable, Rough & Slightly Salty’

If you’re ready for the perfect mix of jaw-dropping industry stories, laugh-out-loud moments, and some very candid advice, and a furry visitor, hit play now.

Sex, Songs, and Savage Truths: The World of Daisy Veacock

Wed, 11 Dec 2024 12:00:00 +0000

We talk about everything from navigating life as a female artist and handling twatty men, to channeling heartbreak into powerful music. Daisy opens up about the realities of balancing a career in music while dealing with industry expectations, like whether artists have to “act single” to succeed, and the unique challenges of walking into sessions as a female artist.
No topic is off-limits as we dive into sex playlists, the gaps in the sex education system, and the ultimate debate: sex or music—what takes the top spot?
Daisy also reflects on becoming a gay icon, revenge fuelled songwriting, and the awkward, beautiful, chaotic moments that shape her music.It’s raw, funny, emotional, and completely unapologetic—just like Daisy herself. Tune in and prepare to laugh, cry, and rethink your breakup playlist. Don’t forget to subscribe and share your thoughts in the comments! 🎧✨

Follow Daisy: https://www.instagram.com/daisyveacock
Listen to, 'BOO!': https://open.spotify.com/track/5pZj42uh0gE8M252VSOuTB?si=4799630ea96c4c6d

Tearing the Banjo String & Fighting Fires In The Bedroom - Minty

Fri, 29 Nov 2024 11:45:28 +0000

Buckle up for an episode that's hotter than a firehouse kitchen! Join Minty, the ex-firefighter and my local pub mate, as we dive into everything from the absurd to the insightful. Backdoor fun & bendy bowels, with a side of colonoscopy, banjo string rips & nurses. We talk fire service life, workplace shenanigans, and even navigating post-separation family dynamics. It’s a laugh riot that covers all the wild topics you didn’t know you needed in your life. Trust me, this one's a must-watch!

From Chelsea to the Bedroom: Sam Vanderpump Unfiltered

Fri, 15 Nov 2024 12:00:00 +0000

In this electrifying episode, I sit down with Sam Vanderpump, the star of Made in Chelsea and member of the iconic Vanderpump dynasty. Known for his charm, wit, and a life equally glamorous and unfiltered, Sam opens up about the surprising layers behind his public persona.

From the glitzy streets of Dubai to the chic avenues of Chelsea, I dive into Sam's journey balancing business with pleasure and the unique pressures that come with the Vanderpump name. In a refreshingly candid conversation, Sam explores kinks and fetishes, and even dishes on red flags, and the romances that felt like “the one.” We even have a sex toy tutorial.

With stories that include sneaky restaurant-bought “homemade” dinners, a wild night with Dua Lipa, and an honest take on anal play, Sam doesn’t hold back, making this episode as raw as it is entertaining. Join Sam & I as we pull back the sheets on life, love, and everything between!

How To Find Yourself Again After Sex Therapy? - Zoë

Fri, 26 Jul 2024 12:00:00 +0000

In this special episode, recorded in Zoë’s bedroom in New Zealand. Zoë is a passionate advocate for sex positivity. Zoë shares her journey through various aspects of modern intimacy and personal growth.

We discuss her struggles with birth control and the complete loss of her sex drive, and the pressures of dating in today's society. Zoë sheds light on living with PMD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder) and her decision on sexuality and whether she will head into the non-monogamy route. She emphasises her principle of "only sleep with people who will work with me," highlighting the importance of mutual effort and respect in intimate connections.

Zoë also explores how sex therapy has helped her reclaim her sexual health and confidence, and shares her journey to finding new ways to enjoy life despite the challenges she has faced.

Join us for a raw and enlightening conversation with Zoë, filled with heartfelt stories, practical advice, and empowering insights into sex, dating, and self-discovery. Zoë it is a pleasure to have met you and to have you in bed. You have opened my eyes to more possibilities and has truly helped navigate was sex means to me.

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Camper-van Chats - Does Long Distance Work? - Luke

Fri, 17 May 2024 00:00:00 +0000

Luke takes us on a journey in his new toy - his camper van, through the maze of modern romance, exploring the complexities of long-distance relationships, the relentless grip of jealousy, and the possibility that he's found "the one." With a candid examination of porn addiction, we peel back the layers of desire to uncover the raw, unfiltered emotions that drive human connection.

Join Luke as he grapples with the age-old question: Is sex everything, or just a fragment of the deeper connection we seek or in Tatiana's words; 'if you want a finger up your bum and your partner doesn't, does that mean relationships over?'

Through exhilarating first-time experiences and heart-wrenching moments of vulnerability, Luke navigates the highs and lows of romantic entanglements with unwavering honesty and courage.

Don't miss out on Luke's journey of self-discovery and love! Join him as he unravels the tapestry of desire and learns that sometimes, the greatest adventure is the one that leads us to the depths of our own hearts. 💖✨

Best of luck on your travels bro, see you soon x

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Grief, Infidelity & Glowing up and Loving Yourself - Gail

Fri, 19 Apr 2024 10:56:53 +0000

In this heartfelt episod e, we delve into the ca ptivating story of Gail, a woman whose life has been marked by profound experiences of love, loss, and self-discovery. From her childhood love to grappling with the pressures of motherhood she never desired, Gail shares her raw emotions and insightful reflections on navigating the complexities of life.

As her children grow and spread their wings, Gail embarks on a solo journey, traveling the world in search of herself. Along the way, she confronts the weight of grief, coping with the loss of her beloved husband, and finding solace in the process of healing.

But it's not just about overcoming tragedy; Gail's story is one of transformation and empowerment developing a company called - 'Glow up & Love Yourself' to help others in the discovery or rebuilding self-love. Yet, the path to self-love is fraught with challenges, including the pain of betrayal and the struggle to release pent-up anger.

Join us as Gail honestly shares her experiences of feeling disillusioned by love, grappling with infidelity, and ultimately emerging with newfound resilience and hope. Her journey serves as a powerful reminder that even in our darkest moments, there is always the possibility of finding light and rediscovering love – within ourselves and in the world around us.

To get involved with her program and keep up to date with everything Gail, head to https://glowupandloveyourself.com/home

To make a donation to the Fijian school; https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/underthesheetswithtatianaashborninfiji

To find out more before you donate - watch the last episode with Naomi; https://youtu.be/xItz9cMJ4C0?si=KMxIZqc5t8bL7L1s

thank you!!

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Imagine Being Told You Have to Have More Children? - Naomi

Fri, 22 Mar 2024 12:04:10 +0000

I am so lucky to have met & live with someone like Naomi in Fiji. I have never felt so useless until I met her and realised she does more work than most of us put together. Naomi is an exceptional Mum, Daughter, Friend and Voice of Reason. Speaking to Naomi in this episode is just a tiny insight to what she actually does day to day. Apologies for any audio disturbances and crack within this episode. We were dealing with children & lawn mowers!

We discuss EVERYTHING from the superstitions in her family regarding death meaning she has to have more children, to the scariest idea I think about; when you have no idea you are pregnant until the baby comes because your menstruation has been normal!!

In Fiji culture it is more likely the women are the breadwinners & feel pressure around being a mum and a 'good' woman. It was also interesting learning how they view women body image compared to the western society which is an absolute plus.

And did you know we now have a thing called human rights? Naomi you are one in a million and you've been through it all but boy do you have an amazing sense of humour and I cannot thank you nor your family enough for letting me come into your home - (https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100080373706605) If anyone is planning to head to Fiji.

I hope you get to the end of this episode and see that we are raising money for Naomi's family and village. It would mean so much to me and all of them if you were able to donate anything you can for their school in order to have another teacher.

Please view how to donate here...

https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/underthesheetswithtatianaashborninfiji?utm_term=YYM4xVnVE

A Conversation with 'Our Guilty Pleasures'- Sex Toys & Working with a Partner - Sophie

Fri, 12 Jan 2024 12:00:00 +0000

In this episode I talk to founder Sophie of Our Guilty Pleasures, a business that has curated the best toys from around the world, all in one place. Not only do we get BTS of the store but we also get amazing advice on how to work alongside a partner in business, sex and friendships. I get gifted my first personal vibrator which is super exciting and have a much needed conversation about female pleasure.

Growing Up with a Sex Therapist as a Mum - Diggory

Fri, 08 Dec 2023 12:00:00 +0000

Diggory Waite is my new favourite human. He is possibly the funniest and kindest person I have been lucky enough to meet and this episode is an absolute corker. Diggory has many anecdotes, mostly about having a sex therapist as a mum but not long after that, he talks about his porn relapse by Samuel L. Jackson's Twitter, making waves in his recovery journey. Waite discusses why he’s struggled when getting into relationships and gives us a step by step guide to navigating attachment styles, therapy sessions & what dating apps are best for working out who’s up for anal this christmas. I cannot wait for you all to listen to this!!

Heeza Geeza, Sheeza Slag!! - Sonny

Fri, 17 Nov 2023 12:00:00 +0000

Sonny is a man of many colours and we have to celebrate his charming self with all his quirkiness and perhaps his indifference of opinions at times. From the christian upbringing and personal exploration to questioning the ease of obtaining sex, Sonny opens ups about his sex life and where he is now as an 18 year old.
Join the conversation as we dive into the world of personal preferences, from red trousers to an unexpected love for chicken nuggets, creating a space where no topic is off-limits.
This episode evolves into an exploration of first times, contrasting the blurry haze of drunk encounters with the clarity of sober experiences, and addresses the lingering emotions that sometimes follow moments of intimacy.
We explore the power dynamics of control versus submission, daringly using provocative language like "slag" to ignite discussions about personal choices and societal expectations. Have you ever felt like a sheep following the herd in the realm of relationships?
We discuss the idea of masculinity and I break his heart when I tell him that women do fake orgasm and a toy should be celebrated rather than thinking you're not good enough.

Tune in for an episode that challenges norms, sparks conversations, and ultimately celebrates the diversity of human interaction.

Losing It - Sophia

Fri, 06 Oct 2023 12:00:00 +0000

If you were told that if you have sex, you'd lose your special glue, how would you react?
Sophia wrote a book.

This is one of the most interesting conversations I have ever had exploring such in depth topics about vaginismus, hymen repair & the idea of having a 'tight' vagina. Sex education isn't taken seriously and can lead to serious health issues. If you don't know, get to know. I didn't realise a lot about the world of sex before I started this podcast - Sophia helped me through it x

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Religion, Autism & Cats - James

Fri, 01 Sep 2023 12:00:00 +0000

James disscusses what love means to him. How autism plays a part in his love life and what he’s truly looking for (not just Beyonce). He opens up about his sexuality and how he hasn’t come out to his parents yet & that religion plays a big part in how he remains positive.
James you were a pleasure to have on the show, thank you for being kind 💜

How Does Going To An All Boys Boarding School Effect You? - Steve

Fri, 04 Aug 2023 12:00:00 +0000

I met Steve at the pub & asked if he wouldnt mind hopping on the show and as nervous as he was he did a fantastic job and gave a lot of insight into the world of Steve. We discuss growing up in an all boys household to later, boarding school. The challenges of expressing emotion & how first time experiences can affect your later years. Having spent time living in Ibiza, he’s had quite the life, now with kids and two divorces I ask the question of whose next?

Thank you for sharing your story, I am grateful to have met you x

Endometriosis & Sober Sex - Kirsty

Fri, 07 Jul 2023 22:00:00 +0000

This is Kirsty, she is an absolute legend of a person, strong, independent woman and I have so much love for her. We discuss how she has managed to become sober after a sex life of alcohol and drugs, raising children in an open environment, safeguarding & the process of having hysterectomy, the challenges of endometriosis and how it felt to go through menopause early.

There is so much content and I would so love to delve in more.

Thank you Kirsty for allowing me an insight of what you have been through 💜

I hope you get your sex swing!

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Do You Ever Feel Paranoid That Someone Is Outworking You? - Del Winder

Fri, 12 May 2023 12:00:00 +0000

Model, Del Winder, dresses to impress at all occasions even when asked to hop into my bed. We talk the walk, delve into the assumptions of the industry with eating disorders and judging your own weight due to performance, not only as a model but a boxer.
Del is from Thailand, so we chat Thai culture & ping pong shows and what people actually mean by 'lady boys.'
Watch now for tongue techniques, math problems and have you ever wondered how much sex you could buy for 10 million pounds?
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Solo in Soho - Danielle

Fri, 28 Apr 2023 19:00:00 +0000

Having Danielle on my bed was the greatest pleasure and not just in one way. Danielle takes us on the ride of our lives and I don’t think I can write something for this other than you must watch this yourselves. You will cry, you will laugh and you will be speechless and you will all know that Danielle is ‘just a natural at it’
Your stories are incredible and a lot I wish were very different for you Danielle because you deserved better but atleast you are here to tell the tales and educate the rest of us, plus you don’t half tell them well! Thank you for sharing, your story matters.
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What G String Are You Playing?! - Craig

Fri, 14 Apr 2023 13:00:00 +0000

Welcome to Craig's episode where we talk - being able to find the right person, that spending too much time with a partner can cause strain, sex playlists, and how long it took to realise he was being walked all over and I cannot believe I nearly forgot... GUITARS.Lets all go #gayformayer
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What's It Like Being A Bisexual Man - Leo

Fri, 31 Mar 2023 12:00:00 +0000

Leo is a true Greek God, talking sex-ed, first times, how working in hospitality can be challenging with inappropriate customers, getting himself into situations he wanted out from and what it means to be bi-sexual in todays world. All this and more, including how Leo likes to spend his Fridays… being proper feral!
Leo, it was nice to hear such a fresh outlook, keep being you and thanks letting me ask about some of my new revelations!! Also a massive thank you to the girl in your year that kept you going 💕 As always its good to be brave.

Queen Of Getting Cold Feet - Amélie

Fri, 17 Mar 2023 12:00:00 +0000

Amélie is a Natural born theatre kid with what sounds like some commitment issues. She delves into talking about being exposed to sexual things from a young age, to how she questioned her sexuality with then never being able to commit after only ever having casual sex. We discuss drag shows, what it means to have a high following and how doesn’t everyone wish they had a sugar daddy?
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When You Waved Your Feather - Lydia

Fri, 10 Feb 2023 12:00:00 +0000

We bring you the steamiest episode yet! And the last episode in the LA season :(
Lydia has become one of my closest friends when meeting her in L.A. She brings the jokes to a whole new level and I cannot stop laughing when I watch it (and I’ve watched it about 9 times). Believe me, this is worth watching.
She’s a film enthusiast, horror obsessed and a wanna-be vibrator owner. We talk celebrity crushes, why she cried after her first time, what it means to be labelled ‘frigid’ in school, how to put in an implant and to really get you all going, she describes a sex scene she’d really want in a film 😬 eeek. Watch out for this film maker….

Broken Home & Broken Hearts - Johnny

Fri, 27 Jan 2023 12:00:00 +0000

The next location in this L.A. Season is a bedroom and it feels great to be back in normality.
This is Johnny and he is a film maker and such a loving, open guy that really deserves happiness and everything he works for. He is brave enough to discuss, coming from a broken home and how that effects relationships, suicide, irrational fears and the want to get a versectomy in prevention of having a child. Through all this he continues to smile and most of all understands the importance of telling your friends you love them.
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The Toxic Relationship Cycle - Paige

Fri, 13 Jan 2023 12:00:00 +0000

Welcome to the first episode of the L.A specials season

The first location is: the living room and I’m catching up with my new friend Paige. Paige opens up about the cycle of being in a toxic relationship, how she dealt with the betrayal of men from a young age, the dream wedding, what having a gorilla dick really means and instead of a book circle, a dildo swapping one. This episode is full of highs and lows and I have to thank Paige for her opinions and knowledge on life so far.

I would like to thank the team; Tyler Townsend, Lydia B-Wills and Oscar Geraldo for helping me out to make this happen.

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My Brother Making A Sex Tape? - Billy LeRiff

Fri, 16 Dec 2022 12:00:00 +0000

A Christmas Special for everyone - bringing the archives back. This ones my brother!!! We talk first time sex, painful sex, sex-tape & how to make a vagina smell nice? Including something that makes my heart break - someone used the wrong name in bed!

Gender Dysmorphia & Surviving - Sammy

Fri, 02 Dec 2022 12:00:00 +0000

Sammy Sunshine is television presenter and actor who has appeared in Indonesian movies and soap operas. He is publicly known for changing his gender into a woman and participating in the Big Brother reality show as Samantha Brodie. However, a few years later decided to return to his identity as a man and married his wife and had two daughters. He discusses losing his virginity at 30, abandonment issues, being a survivor of sexual assault and what it actually means to open your vagina wallets.

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Blowjobs & Sausage Casserole - Beth & Josh

Fri, 18 Nov 2022 12:00:00 +0000

Beth & Josh have been best friends through it all and have come to chat in bed with me about Beth's long-term relationships and Josh's sex scandals. They discuss how important it is to keep your friends through a relationship, not being able to orgasm, dealing with gambling addiction & how to maybe look at your bus driver a bit differently?

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Chat-Up Lines & Toxic Masculinity - Luke

Mon, 07 Nov 2022 18:04:42 +0000

Luke is one of my brothers mates and comes on the show to discuss toxic masculinity, his sexual encounters, porn and using his charm - the capri. Luke really is a gentlemen and perhaps he's from Tennessee.

Hook-up Culture and The Misconception of the LGBTQIA+ Community - Raphael

Fri, 21 Oct 2022 00:00:00 +0000

Raph has the most beautiful soul and continues to explore his relationship with men. Raphael hasn't had sex yet and discusses when the special moment will cum, hook-up culture and the misconception of the LGBTQIA+ community.
Being Queer and Black is something to celebrate and yet here we are still having to talk about the struggles that Raph goes through. He educates us on the brilliance of black trans femininity, how a Naomi Campbell catwalk should be a dream and how to put on a condom, and just for you he does it in ASMR.

Can Mental Health Hurt You In Relationships? - Lulu & Seren

Fri, 07 Oct 2022 00:00:00 +0000

Lulu and Seren have been friends for ages and really empower not only each other but me and I hope all of you. We discuss sexuality, threesomes, what it’s like coping with OCD and ADHD, and how they both like the idea of someone watching them have sex. Talk about theatrical performance, look who’s got a party trick…

A Very Strange Sexual Encounter... - Joe

Fri, 09 Sep 2022 00:00:00 +0000

I hadn't seen Joe in three years; the last time I did, he was still a virgin. Oh, how things change. He talks about dating apps, the effect of Tik Tok, cancel culture and what makes good soup.

Do You Get Jealous? - Isla

Fri, 26 Aug 2022 00:00:00 +0000

This is Isla. She talks about how she hasnt been able to climax yet, what it means to be adventurous in the bedroom and how jealousy can get in the way. Isla is a powerful young women and I cant wait for you to hear what she has to say.

Talking Sex with Grandma! - Clare

Fri, 12 Aug 2022 00:00:00 +0000

I talk to my Grandma about what love was, what it has become, how she met my Grandad and marriage for all these years. I cannot wait for you all to listen to this. I think there are a lot of laughs and many moments that will shock you. Always watch out for your Grandma's fruit bowl x

Dose Body Count Matter? - Prince

Fri, 29 Jul 2022 00:00:00 +0000

Does body-count matter? Does It all come down to feet? Prince has a pretty strong opinion. Do you agree?

No Sex Before Marriage? - Ariana

Fri, 15 Jul 2022 00:00:00 +0000

This is my friend Ariana that openly discusses why she is waiting to have sex until marriage. I love how honest she is and how lucky I am to hear her stories and opinions about her first kiss, who should pay on a first date & stigma about waiting till marriage, all with her mum in the room!

3 Ways, Cigarettes and a CAT?! - Herbie Price

Sat, 09 Jul 2022 00:00:00 +0000

Doing this episode was so much fun and can’t believe it was my first time meeting Herbie, he shocked me continuously but in such a good way. Stay crazy, Herbie!

How Do You Find Love After a Divorce? - Pam & Terry

Fri, 01 Jul 2022 00:00:00 +0000

Pam & Terry discuss their Tinder marriage and previous divorce as well as the love they have for sex and their children in the LGBTQ+ community.

What's It Like Being a Porn Star? - Jamie

Fri, 17 Jun 2022 00:00:00 +0000

Jamie is a sex worker on Only Fans and he explains to us what that means and how it can affect his day-to-day life. Tune in to learn something new and maybe become a little more open-minded!

Addicted To Self-Love?! - Skye

Fri, 27 May 2022 00:00:00 +0000

This is Skye, in this episode, he talks to me about how his relationship with his Mum has shaped him, how to control a porn addiction, penis size, realising what masturbation was and how he coped with being cheated on. All with his current girlfriend in the audience.

ADHD and Relationships - Simon

Fri, 13 May 2022 00:00:00 +0000

Today we meet Simon - A member for the dirtytalk crew, who has recently been diagnosed with ADHD (April 2021) - How does ADHD effect relationships and sex.. and what would happen if you finished in your cactus?

My Brothers Girlfriend and Her Sex Life! - Ellie

Fri, 29 Apr 2022 00:00:00 +0000

Today we meet Ellie - who talks about sex toys, contraception and the enjoyment of relationship sex... with my brother!

Bleeding, Safe-Sex and Douching - Mattie

Fri, 15 Apr 2022 00:00:00 +0000

In this episode I talk to one of my best mates, Mattie is a young gay man who comes on the show to talk about safe sex, douching and sexual preferences.. we really get to the bottom of his!

How To Put a Condom on With Your Mouth - Fletch

Fri, 01 Apr 2022 00:00:00 +0000

Fletch, my dads friend talks to me about his nitty gritty first time, parenting and how to maintain an open relationship with his kids and wife, as well as learning how to put on a condom with your mouth. Anyone should be lucky to have this guy in their life.

How To Maintain a Relationship with Kids - Tan

Fri, 04 Mar 2022 00:00:00 +0000

Todays Guest is a 29 year old mother of 2 children, she divides her time from work to looking after her kids to being a partner to her husband. We discuss the struggles of maintaining a relationship through having kids and her first time experiences, does she get a hole in one?

Do Real Men Eat A$$? - Zee

Fri, 18 Feb 2022 20:00:00 +0000

TikTok star Zee comes on the show to discuss his playboy persona, what’s behind that and how he deals with the struggles of so-called man-hood. Zee is one of a kind and I must thank him for being so open with me but luckily, not too open that he was having to use his knife and fork…

Polyamorous, Gender Queer, Demisexual - Dragon King

Fri, 04 Feb 2022 00:00:00 +0000

Today’s guest is genderqueer, demisexual and polyamorous and they even breathe fire. Dragon is an amazing spokesperson for the LGBTQ+ community and I learnt so much about gender pronouns, sexuality, terminology, plus how you get a butt plug stuck!

Ash Loves Sex! - Ashley Warden

Fri, 07 Jan 2022 00:58:13 +0000

In this episode, I talk to my brothers best mate about his past relationship and first time sex. Let's talk penis size, condoms and more whilst things get steamy in bed with Ash.